Sleuthing Autism: What’s The Problem?

“My son is having a much easier time talking today that he has had all week. I’m still trying to figure out how an autistic mind works. Some days, he can barely get a sentence out. Other days, he can talk with just a little effort. That was my post yesterday on Facebook. Last Saturday I posted, “My son had a good day. Yea.”

For the last four weeks Nick has been having a very difficult time with life. A few times he’s been very close to tears. Other times, he has been downright angry. One Wednesday, he stammered, “I can barely talk.” That was all he could say.
I am quite baffled. I have no answers for my son. This is the child who talked for an hour once to my oldest son’s friend back in the Fall.
Nick is also a very resilient child. He has a quiet but happy spirit. He is not one to hold a grudge or be in a slump for long. Lately, he seems to be obsessing more frequently. Again, something he usually does not do too often.
The most confusing part is that his behavior and mood swing are not consistent. As parents, we are encouraging Nick to keep talking and keep hope.
I feel stupid, asking a teen with autism to talk. I’m asking him to do the one thing that is hardest for anyone with autism to do: socialize and talk. Yea, no problem… NOT.
So I’m tracking the ups and downs of Nick, trying to find if there is a reason. Could he be staying on the gluten free diet? Is he not taking his supplements? Are other kids contributing to the problem? Is this just a typical stage in a teen’s life?
I wish I could hire Sherlock Holmes!

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sasyjohnson

I am: a) happily married for over 27 years; b) mom to five boys, three diagnosed with autism; c) a home schooling mom; and d) self-employed as a piano teacher. There is no trace of autism on my side or my husband's side of the family tree. Until nine years ago, my youngest four all had disabilities, the youngest three with autism. Five years ago my youngest did not "qualify" for the autism label, rendering him "recovered". My second oldest also "tested" out of his speech delay. My husband and I attribute these successes to the care of many family members and therapists, change in diets, not following mainstream medicine yet listening to medical advice, doing our own research, and most importantly, lots of prayer.

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