Time Out For Fun

Nick, Victorious Knight, Cam, and Ryan

Amidst the turmoil of autism, we need fun.  Yes, we need to keep a balance of sensory, safety, and dietary issues.  Consequently, we do a lot of research for any outing.  We found one that would stretch the boys.  Medieval Times!

Think of eating with no utensils.  Ok, maybe not too hard to endure for boys.

Picture a stadium setting with theatrical lighting and roaring crowds.  Now hear the clashing of metal upon metal during the jousting, and breathing of dirt, hay, and whatever remnants of the horses.  For typical kids, this could be a highlight event.  For teens with autism, it could be a sensory nightmare.

We knew the boys loved the movies of the Lord of the Rings.   They thoroughly enjoyed the sword-fighting and chivalry.  They admired the steadfast Aragorn, especially when the odds were against him.  Legolas and Gimli added further dimension of weaponry and defense.  So we drew similarities from the movies to what this Medieval Times would include.

We prepared them for the close contact of the arena seating.  We warned them of the unpredictable lights and sounds.  We gave them possible solutions as to how to deal with these.  They were gamed to go, and they looked forward to eating with their fingers!  (Years ago they couldn’t stand dirt or shaving cream on their fingers, so this would have been a concern back then.)

We arrived at the facililty, and the boys took it all in.  At times they had to sit and relax, but for the most part, they enjoyed all the sites and sounds of the retail area.  They even wore crowns/hats!  Then we were escorted into the actual arena.  Food and drink came and went.  The knights on horseback traversed right in front of us as we had front row seating.  Theatre lights blinded us occasionally.  Loud narratives welcomed us and introduced the games as they unfolded.

Throughout the entire evening, the boys were intent on what played out in front of them.  They cheered and waved our banner when our knight did well. They weren’t too keen when the horse snorted just a few feet from them.  They experienced the show without problems.  No complaint.  The boys were extremely loud when our knight won the jousting contest. 

Mike and I were relieved when they all concurred that we should return.  And soon!

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I am: a) happily married for over 27 years; b) mom to five boys, three diagnosed with autism; c) a home schooling mom; and d) self-employed as a piano teacher. There is no trace of autism on my side or my husband's side of the family tree. Until nine years ago, my youngest four all had disabilities, the youngest three with autism. Five years ago my youngest did not "qualify" for the autism label, rendering him "recovered". My second oldest also "tested" out of his speech delay. My husband and I attribute these successes to the care of many family members and therapists, change in diets, not following mainstream medicine yet listening to medical advice, doing our own research, and most importantly, lots of prayer.

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