Tough Day and a Rose

Just about every day can be considered a tough day when you are a parent of teen boys with autism.  The criteria change daily of what is a tough day.

What may make a tough day today becomes easy to handle tomorrow.  What was easy yesterday becomes the challenge of today.

I know I can chose how to react, and sometimes my initial reaction is not so good.  Even Pollyanna got to the point of not wanting to be happy.

Taking a step back is so important to keep perspective and patience.  The proverbial line of taking time to smell the roses is true.  It’s those small moments that can make memories.  Good or bad memories.

So this morning I got up early and stopped at a coffee shop.  I can breath! I can relax. It’s short-lived, but it eases the turmoil  Funny how just a simple change of scene helps. 

I found my rose for today.

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I am: a) happily married for over 27 years; b) mom to five boys, three diagnosed with autism; c) a home schooling mom; and d) self-employed as a piano teacher. There is no trace of autism on my side or my husband's side of the family tree. Until nine years ago, my youngest four all had disabilities, the youngest three with autism. Five years ago my youngest did not "qualify" for the autism label, rendering him "recovered". My second oldest also "tested" out of his speech delay. My husband and I attribute these successes to the care of many family members and therapists, change in diets, not following mainstream medicine yet listening to medical advice, doing our own research, and most importantly, lots of prayer.

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