Although the new school year has started, it’s never too late to celebrate achievements. We hosted a graduation party for Cameron back in May, as he graduated from eighth grade. Sadly, the local school district cancelled any formal ceremony due to budget cuts. Nonetheless, we commemorated the moment, complete with mock diploma and hat. Cameron was a good sport. He certainly appreciated the attention too!
These milestones may seem like normal steps for most people. For a mom of teens with autism, these occasions are victories of unseen battles. Years ago, I would never have believed my youngest would be at this level of cognition and ability.
As we gathered to congratulate Cameron, I wanted to acknowledge that this moment was not just due to his ability. Many shared in it. I took a few moments to take all present at the party back to 13 years prior. I reminded everyone that Cameron has major setbacks as a toddler. He lost his speech and movement. He had to relearn how to walk and talk. He became self abusive, banging his head incessantly. Many therapists and family members helped Cameron to develop physically, mentally, and emotionally.
I never want Cameron to take for granted that these moments of success are only a result of his effort. While he earns most of the credit, he can’t forget those earlier moments. In fact, he can show how someone can overcome/recover from autism.
Now he moved onto high school. There’s always a new step or goal, much like his life has been with autism. Once a goal is achieved, it is quickly replaced by a new goal. Such is life. The difference now is he can pick what his goals are, not us parents. His class load at the high school is tough. His counselors didn’t recommend the load, but they don’t know Cameron very well. When he WANTS to do something, he will do it. It may take several tries, but he’ll figure it out.
So onto the next step, Cameron goes!
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