Help Us Get A Job To Pay for Your Social Security

Stuart and girlfriend

Last night my son, Stuart, texted me, advising me that he needed to go to mass with me in the morning.  He normally attends a later mass, geared for teens and young adults.  Let’s just say early in the morning draws the “wiser, more mature” crowd.

I found out why when Stuart stood up at the end of mass to make an announcement to the congregation.  He spoke eloquently, coupled with humor.  As is Stuart.

He made a pitch to the congregation to help support the scholarship fund by buying a ticket for a fundraiser.  He received a scholarship a few years back from this fund.  He outlined how he benefitted from the money.  He graduated from the local community college with his degree in business.  Now he is attending the local university, majoring in finance.  Impressive, albeit normal plea.  My guess is that someone wrote the script.

Then Stuart improvised.  Stuart spoke from the heart for a few seconds, expressing his appreciation for not having to work full time that first year while in school.  Touching.

AND Stuart ended with his humorous side while illustrating how buying this ticket would actually benefit the crowd, who is slightly older than Stu by 40 or more years.  Stu logically cited that by helping to build the scholarship fund, that would help the graduating seniors to get a job which will help pay for their (the congregation’s) social security.  Laughter!!

Many of the seniors came to me after mass, expressing that Stu has a great future in public speaking.  Considering Stuart was diagnosed with a speech delay in his youth, this is a great surprise!

Autism and Scholarship: Party Time

Now we’re at the reception following the scholarship recognition ceremony.

Ryan and I hightailed it to the coffee line as the food line led to wheat laden food.  (Ryan is gluten free except for wheat that I grind–unprocessed/unheated wheat.)  At the coffee bar, we chatted a bit between ourselves and then with a few others we knew.  Out of nowhere, Ryan announced, “I’m going to talk with that girl.”

I reacted casually (?), “What girl?”

“THAT girl, in line.”

Wow!  OK.  I recognized her from elementary school.  When Ryan was home schooled, she made the effort to talk with Ryan.  Ryan always answered her questions, but never ventured to initiate his own line of conversation.  Well, today he did.  He held a conversation with her.  They included me.  I was impressed.  It was not too long when they walked away.  Without me.

Too cool!

Autism and Scholarships: Thrilling!

Yesterday Mike and I were absolutely thrilled to watch Ryan walk across the stage at his high school to receive a certificate.  This certificate recognized Ryan as a recipient of an academic scholarship.  There were moments when I doubted we’d get to this point.  Even applying for the scholarship had its moments.  I’ve described some of that in previous posts, so I won’t belabor “the steps” here.

Ryan’s response to the event really surprised me.

He was happy.  If you know Ryan, he doesn’t smile often.

He tried to hide his smile when he walked down the steps of the stage, but for once, he couldn’t hide his true emotion.  He smiled, well ok, he smirked.  He KNEW this was an accomplishment.  He LIKED being recognized.  Not comfortable. But liked.

New territory for Ryan.

After the ceremony, there was a reception.  News about that will come in the next entry!

Autism and Interviews: Award -Winning!

Ryan is a finalist!  I received word late this week that Ryan is a scholarship winner.  I don’t know how much.  The amount will be announced on May 12.  Ryan tried to hide his smile when I told him.  Hence, no picture to show.  I think he was genuinely surprised!

Now we are focusing on what classes to take.  Ryan wants to take online classes, and only writing classes.  He also wants his own laptop, so he can write undisturbed.

We finally have a course of action!  Yea.

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Autism and Interviews: Time Marches On!

Oceanside Beach, 2012

It’s been a week since Ryan’s interview for a scholarship.  We have not heard anything.  That doesn’t seem to bother Ryan.  I, however, want to know.

Alas, we’ve been busy doing other things.  Today, Ryan and I filled out required paperwork for his SSI application.  At least, we know that is in progress.  That is another story.  All this government bureaucracy is time consuming.  Tis a lesson in patience, and I’ve learned that the lessons in patience take the longest.

Sigh.

So I try to be patient.  Easiest way to do that is to picture the beach.  Sunset too.  Tis timeless.